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		<title>By: Working at Home: Myths vs. Reality&#160;&#124;&#160;Freelance Writing Jobs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Working at Home: Myths vs. Reality&#160;&#124;&#160;Freelance Writing Jobs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 13:06:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] people begin working at home but have poor habits. I can&#8217;t tell you the amount of people who flaked on projects leaving me high and dry or missed deadlines. Others turned in hastily written work [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Freelance Writing Jobs - The Internet&#8217;s #1 Freelance Writer Community &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Flaky Clients and How to Deal with Them</title>
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		<dc:creator>Freelance Writing Jobs - The Internet&#8217;s #1 Freelance Writer Community &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Flaky Clients and How to Deal with Them</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 20:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] we talked about flaky freelancers. Today I promised to go on a bit about flaky clients. It happens more than you think. Here are some [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Shell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 18:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My long term contractor expects the writers to abide by strict time lines as her clients&#039; needs have to be met. I always ensure work is delivered on time and most often, well before time. In return, I get consistent payment and an excellent working rapport with the company.

What if you are a freelancer who has been offered a project only to have the client  dither or postpone the working arrangement? This has happened too. Where I have delivered on time, every time, only to have an uncooperative client who makes false promises not just to me but several of staff. It&#039;s a shame, but it does happen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My long term contractor expects the writers to abide by strict time lines as her clients&#8217; needs have to be met. I always ensure work is delivered on time and most often, well before time. In return, I get consistent payment and an excellent working rapport with the company.</p>
<p>What if you are a freelancer who has been offered a project only to have the client  dither or postpone the working arrangement? This has happened too. Where I have delivered on time, every time, only to have an uncooperative client who makes false promises not just to me but several of staff. It&#8217;s a shame, but it does happen.</p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 16:44:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve turned down any freelance job that tells me when I have to be at my desk, on my computer.  If I want to be that tied down, I&#039;d go back to an office job!  But count me in as someone who uses a cell phone as a business number.  It allows me the flexibility to work remotely.  

Sometimes there are jobs I&#039;ve accepted, thinking I would be able to complete them, no problem.  But sometimes things come up that doesn&#039;t allow for that: a family emergency, sources who flake out on you, and sometimes the job turns out to be more than you realized. When stuff like that happens, I get in touch with the editor immediately and we go from there.  Sometimes both editor and writer have to admit it was a bad match and move on.  Better to be honest and upfront and not burn bridges.  Communication between editor and writer goes a long way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve turned down any freelance job that tells me when I have to be at my desk, on my computer.  If I want to be that tied down, I&#8217;d go back to an office job!  But count me in as someone who uses a cell phone as a business number.  It allows me the flexibility to work remotely.  </p>
<p>Sometimes there are jobs I&#8217;ve accepted, thinking I would be able to complete them, no problem.  But sometimes things come up that doesn&#8217;t allow for that: a family emergency, sources who flake out on you, and sometimes the job turns out to be more than you realized. When stuff like that happens, I get in touch with the editor immediately and we go from there.  Sometimes both editor and writer have to admit it was a bad match and move on.  Better to be honest and upfront and not burn bridges.  Communication between editor and writer goes a long way.</p>
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		<title>By: DeepQuest &#187; Online Business</title>
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		<dc:creator>DeepQuest &#187; Online Business</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 16:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Tina Marie Frawley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Marie Frawley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 14:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know one thing that helps me keep my sanity is my cell phone. I use my cell phone as my business line. This way, if I do make that run to Starbucks, no one has to know where I am and what I am doing. Also, unless I am in with a client or working on a tight deadline, I answer the phone (in a professional way) and talk with whomever is calling. I&#039;ve given price quotes in the checkout line and conducted interviews while walking the dog (not somthing I recommend!).

This seems to keep my customers happy. They feel they can almost always reach me and almost never go to voicemail. Tuesday I was in line at the Post Office when a new client called me looking to get information on my services. If I had let it go to voice mail because I was not at home, they would have continued calling copywriters until they got someone one the phone.

We live in a &quot;Me&quot; generation, where no one likes to wait. Having worked in NYC, I&#039;m sure Deb understands how fast paced people are. People don&#039;t like to wait, and using a cell phone keeps my business running while I sip my latte and do my Christmas shopping!  It works!

Best,
Tina Marie Frawley</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know one thing that helps me keep my sanity is my cell phone. I use my cell phone as my business line. This way, if I do make that run to Starbucks, no one has to know where I am and what I am doing. Also, unless I am in with a client or working on a tight deadline, I answer the phone (in a professional way) and talk with whomever is calling. I&#8217;ve given price quotes in the checkout line and conducted interviews while walking the dog (not somthing I recommend!).</p>
<p>This seems to keep my customers happy. They feel they can almost always reach me and almost never go to voicemail. Tuesday I was in line at the Post Office when a new client called me looking to get information on my services. If I had let it go to voice mail because I was not at home, they would have continued calling copywriters until they got someone one the phone.</p>
<p>We live in a &#8220;Me&#8221; generation, where no one likes to wait. Having worked in NYC, I&#8217;m sure Deb understands how fast paced people are. People don&#8217;t like to wait, and using a cell phone keeps my business running while I sip my latte and do my Christmas shopping!  It works!</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Tina Marie Frawley</p>
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		<title>By: Julie K.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 14:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wanted to pipe in on the part-time freelancer flakiness ... I find it very hard to budget my time and work toward a full-time career when I bid for jobs or send out queries or articles and never hear back from the majority of editors (AD being a notable and welcome exception).  I have this (irrational, I know) fear that they will all come calling at once and I will be unable to meet the demand.  So I end up with less work than I should, because I want to make sure that I can reliably produce what I have proposed.  But the whole set-up makes me mad.  Why should I play by the rules when others don&#039;t?  How hard is it to write the word &quot;no&quot; on my SASE or send me a quick E-mail?  [hops off soap-box, turning red]  What I am trying to say is that if I were more aggressive, I would likely come off as unreliable because I would bid for twice as many jobs to compensate for the editors that never call.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wanted to pipe in on the part-time freelancer flakiness &#8230; I find it very hard to budget my time and work toward a full-time career when I bid for jobs or send out queries or articles and never hear back from the majority of editors (AD being a notable and welcome exception).  I have this (irrational, I know) fear that they will all come calling at once and I will be unable to meet the demand.  So I end up with less work than I should, because I want to make sure that I can reliably produce what I have proposed.  But the whole set-up makes me mad.  Why should I play by the rules when others don&#8217;t?  How hard is it to write the word &#8220;no&#8221; on my SASE or send me a quick E-mail?  [hops off soap-box, turning red]  What I am trying to say is that if I were more aggressive, I would likely come off as unreliable because I would bid for twice as many jobs to compensate for the editors that never call.</p>
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		<title>By: Markus Merz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Markus Merz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 12:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Manual trackback: &lt;a href=&quot;http://performancing.com/writing/monetization-writers-are-new-slaves&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Monetization: Writers are the new slaves&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;... Please read the following. Read twice:

We would like 5 blog postings per week. Each post must be 250+ words. Pay is $55 / month to start. ...&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Manual trackback: <a href="http://performancing.com/writing/monetization-writers-are-new-slaves" rel="nofollow">Monetization: Writers are the new slaves</a></p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230; Please read the following. Read twice:</p>
<p>We would like 5 blog postings per week. Each post must be 250+ words. Pay is $55 / month to start. &#8230;</p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 12:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Right on, neighbor Amy.

I noticed that when I was in a NW Ind. &quot;communicators&quot; group. For most, writing/PR was nothing more than a hobby. I&#039;m hoping to be able to send two girls to college. 

When you freelance, the good news is that you get paid for production. But if you are a slacker, the bad news is that you get paid for production.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right on, neighbor Amy.</p>
<p>I noticed that when I was in a NW Ind. &#8220;communicators&#8221; group. For most, writing/PR was nothing more than a hobby. I&#8217;m hoping to be able to send two girls to college. </p>
<p>When you freelance, the good news is that you get paid for production. But if you are a slacker, the bad news is that you get paid for production.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Derby</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy Derby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 03:17:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reading this (and Ryan&#039;s post), I couldn&#039;t help but feel the irony.  When I worked a salaried job, I found more time to slack off (on my employer&#039;s dime) than I do now, because then I got paid the same amount regardless of my production.  Now, it&#039;s my time I&#039;m giving up when I do choose to slack.  I don&#039;t charge an hourly rate.  The quicker I do my work, the more time I have to spend earning my next check.  And if I procrastinate too much, I&#039;m the one suffering by being up till 3am working, not my client.  I&#039;ve never missed a deadline, not even a self-imposed one.

That said, I&#039;ve had the pleasure (or not in some cases) of hiring freelancers, and yes, many of them are flakes.  At first, I was shocked, because I&#039;d never treat a client the way some people have treated me.  Then I realized the difference: some people&#039;s livelihoods don&#039;t depend on their freelance careers, but mine does.

I&#039;ve got nothing against people who freelance for extra pocket money, or more for fun than for profit, but those people do tend to be the flakes (in my experience).  Those who earn their livings freelancing don&#039;t want to risk losing their clients or developing a bad rep.  Those who have someone else bringing in their &#039;real&#039; income don&#039;t need to make a real commitment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading this (and Ryan&#8217;s post), I couldn&#8217;t help but feel the irony.  When I worked a salaried job, I found more time to slack off (on my employer&#8217;s dime) than I do now, because then I got paid the same amount regardless of my production.  Now, it&#8217;s my time I&#8217;m giving up when I do choose to slack.  I don&#8217;t charge an hourly rate.  The quicker I do my work, the more time I have to spend earning my next check.  And if I procrastinate too much, I&#8217;m the one suffering by being up till 3am working, not my client.  I&#8217;ve never missed a deadline, not even a self-imposed one.</p>
<p>That said, I&#8217;ve had the pleasure (or not in some cases) of hiring freelancers, and yes, many of them are flakes.  At first, I was shocked, because I&#8217;d never treat a client the way some people have treated me.  Then I realized the difference: some people&#8217;s livelihoods don&#8217;t depend on their freelance careers, but mine does.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got nothing against people who freelance for extra pocket money, or more for fun than for profit, but those people do tend to be the flakes (in my experience).  Those who earn their livings freelancing don&#8217;t want to risk losing their clients or developing a bad rep.  Those who have someone else bringing in their &#8216;real&#8217; income don&#8217;t need to make a real commitment.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa Donovan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa Donovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 01:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t even imagine accepting a gig that I wouldn&#039;t see through.  As far as I&#039;m concerned, once the work agreement is signed, the deal is sealed.

-Melissa Donovan
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.writingforward.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Writing FORWARD&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t even imagine accepting a gig that I wouldn&#8217;t see through.  As far as I&#8217;m concerned, once the work agreement is signed, the deal is sealed.</p>
<p>-Melissa Donovan<br />
<a href="http://www.writingforward.com" rel="nofollow">Writing FORWARD</a></p>
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		<title>By: becky</title>
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		<dc:creator>becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 00:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sure, some freelancers are flakes. But I try very hard not to be.

This is a business. It&#039;s MY business and MY livelihood. While I may not be getting standard benefits (health, vacation, etc.) from my clients, they are still my employer for however long we work together. I value my reputation and want to be professional and reliable. In fact, I must be if I plan to keep working as a writer.

Following through as promised, doing a job even if it&#039;s not the most fascinating, finishing on time... these are all hallmarks of a professional. The writers that think this is a &quot;piece of cake&quot; job and that anyone can write are usually the ones that don&#039;t take their reputations seriously.

So the rest of us have to work harder to make up for that... at least until we build our own reputations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure, some freelancers are flakes. But I try very hard not to be.</p>
<p>This is a business. It&#8217;s MY business and MY livelihood. While I may not be getting standard benefits (health, vacation, etc.) from my clients, they are still my employer for however long we work together. I value my reputation and want to be professional and reliable. In fact, I must be if I plan to keep working as a writer.</p>
<p>Following through as promised, doing a job even if it&#8217;s not the most fascinating, finishing on time&#8230; these are all hallmarks of a professional. The writers that think this is a &#8220;piece of cake&#8221; job and that anyone can write are usually the ones that don&#8217;t take their reputations seriously.</p>
<p>So the rest of us have to work harder to make up for that&#8230; at least until we build our own reputations.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 22:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrea makes an excellent point, as does Erik.

I&#039;ve been burned on a couple of projects due to &quot;scope creep.&quot; So agreed-upon project prices were far too low by the time project was done. Both were first-time efforts on my part (editing a book draft and a survey project for which no automated scoring was available). So now any time I venture into new territory, I take on clients on a trial basis and spell that out in the agreement.

Started with my largest current client that way. Though it&#039;s a long-term client now, it was still best to start that way.

To Deb&#039;s points, no freelancer who is making ends meet is a slacker -- and anyone who thinks that doesn&#039;t have a clue. Like most others here, I sell the projects, do the work, edit the material, handle the billing and make sure  (by hiring a tech) that the equipment keeps running. What&#039;s that, 4-5 &quot;jobs?&quot; Try explainig that to a union worker. An 8-hour day would be &quot;slacking,&quot; as would a five-day work week.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrea makes an excellent point, as does Erik.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been burned on a couple of projects due to &#8220;scope creep.&#8221; So agreed-upon project prices were far too low by the time project was done. Both were first-time efforts on my part (editing a book draft and a survey project for which no automated scoring was available). So now any time I venture into new territory, I take on clients on a trial basis and spell that out in the agreement.</p>
<p>Started with my largest current client that way. Though it&#8217;s a long-term client now, it was still best to start that way.</p>
<p>To Deb&#8217;s points, no freelancer who is making ends meet is a slacker &#8212; and anyone who thinks that doesn&#8217;t have a clue. Like most others here, I sell the projects, do the work, edit the material, handle the billing and make sure  (by hiring a tech) that the equipment keeps running. What&#8217;s that, 4-5 &#8220;jobs?&#8221; Try explainig that to a union worker. An 8-hour day would be &#8220;slacking,&#8221; as would a five-day work week.</p>
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		<title>By: MelissaO</title>
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		<dc:creator>MelissaO</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 21:42:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting that you made that suggestion, Andrea. I JUST got my first teeny, ting gig (off this board) and that&#039;s exactly what I did!

I don&#039;t mean to denigrate this job as teeny, tiny, but it is indeed small, but about the one topic that really gets me going and fascinates me endlessly.  So I&#039;m not bothered at all!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting that you made that suggestion, Andrea. I JUST got my first teeny, ting gig (off this board) and that&#8217;s exactly what I did!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t mean to denigrate this job as teeny, tiny, but it is indeed small, but about the one topic that really gets me going and fascinates me endlessly.  So I&#8217;m not bothered at all!</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - JCM Enterprises</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - JCM Enterprises</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 20:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great post, and one of the points bears stressing:

Work-at-home moms have a lot to prove.  

The perception and stereotypes involved for those that work at home are already harsh. I honestly see how hard women who work at home have to work to prove themselves to clients. Hey, I do, and I&#039;m a Dad. Toss in gender bias and kids?  No, I do not want to go there.

One thing that is important - fight the stereotype. Don&#039;t perpetuate it. Women work at home, yes. That doesn&#039;t mean they have to come off as frazzled fanatics covered in baby drool with kids on their knees and a household from hell. That may be the reality - your clients don&#039;t want to know that, nor do they respect that image.

I wish the world were different. I wish people had more respect for mothers and women. The truth is, men are still treated differently. 

Soemtimes the only difference between a work at home dad and a work at home mom - many times - is just what&#039;s between our legs. I&#039;m a work at home dad and I just don&#039;t perpetuate the frazzled babyslobber dad image. It makes a difference in how clients treat me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great post, and one of the points bears stressing:</p>
<p>Work-at-home moms have a lot to prove.  </p>
<p>The perception and stereotypes involved for those that work at home are already harsh. I honestly see how hard women who work at home have to work to prove themselves to clients. Hey, I do, and I&#8217;m a Dad. Toss in gender bias and kids?  No, I do not want to go there.</p>
<p>One thing that is important &#8211; fight the stereotype. Don&#8217;t perpetuate it. Women work at home, yes. That doesn&#8217;t mean they have to come off as frazzled fanatics covered in baby drool with kids on their knees and a household from hell. That may be the reality &#8211; your clients don&#8217;t want to know that, nor do they respect that image.</p>
<p>I wish the world were different. I wish people had more respect for mothers and women. The truth is, men are still treated differently. </p>
<p>Soemtimes the only difference between a work at home dad and a work at home mom &#8211; many times &#8211; is just what&#8217;s between our legs. I&#8217;m a work at home dad and I just don&#8217;t perpetuate the frazzled babyslobber dad image. It makes a difference in how clients treat me.</p>
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		<title>By: T</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 20:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know where I read or heard this adage, but it works for me: First under-promise, then over-deliver. I agree that a good recap/summary is an essential tool. I&#039;ve also found that non-defensiveness is really helpful in developing a professional, cooperative image.

I&#039;m looking forward to the post on Flakey Clients. 

Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know where I read or heard this adage, but it works for me: First under-promise, then over-deliver. I agree that a good recap/summary is an essential tool. I&#8217;ve also found that non-defensiveness is really helpful in developing a professional, cooperative image.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to the post on Flakey Clients. </p>
<p>Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 19:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Erik great tip!

@ Andrea - I agree. I always go over what the customer wants with an email. This way also I have it all in writing &quot;just in case&quot;.

@ Robin - I&#039;ll have to do a followup with a flakey client post.

@Allena - That&#039;s one of my favorite posts at Freelance Switch.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Erik great tip!</p>
<p>@ Andrea &#8211; I agree. I always go over what the customer wants with an email. This way also I have it all in writing &#8220;just in case&#8221;.</p>
<p>@ Robin &#8211; I&#8217;ll have to do a followup with a flakey client post.</p>
<p>@Allena &#8211; That&#8217;s one of my favorite posts at Freelance Switch.</p>
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		<title>By: allena</title>
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		<dc:creator>allena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 19:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PS, This post reminds me of this post, complete with funny cartoons:

http://freelanceswitch.com/clients/the-13-breeds-of-freelancer-and-how-to-up-your-game/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS, This post reminds me of this post, complete with funny cartoons:</p>
<p><a href="http://freelanceswitch.com/clients/the-13-breeds-of-freelancer-and-how-to-up-your-game/" rel="nofollow">http://freelanceswitch.com/clients/the-13-breeds-of-freelancer-and-how-to-up-your-game/</a></p>
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		<title>By: allena</title>
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		<dc:creator>allena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 19:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey robin- I also just took a couple days off to run the book fair! haha weird! But yeah, I brought my laptop and redirected my BlackBerry so that my clients can always get to me and have a quick reply.
Deb- I am a flake. I think it comes from being alone in the house for 6 hours a day everyday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey robin- I also just took a couple days off to run the book fair! haha weird! But yeah, I brought my laptop and redirected my BlackBerry so that my clients can always get to me and have a quick reply.<br />
Deb- I am a flake. I think it comes from being alone in the house for 6 hours a day everyday.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 18:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrea - good advice. I think I&#039;ll try that with a new client (that I got off this job board - THANKS!).

What&#039;s great about this job is that we can take a break to go to Starbucks or take a week of sick days - as long as we still get our work to our clients on time and done to the best of our abilities.

I just took last week off to run the book fair at my kids&#039; school. I knew it was coming up so I scheduled all of my work around it and made sure I didn&#039;t take on any new jobs in the week&#039;s prior to it.

I want to know about the flakey clients. This has happened to me twice now. I get a response saying they loved me work, they want me to do the job and then boom - nothing. I never hear from them again. The first time happened over two years ago, but the second happened just this month. It was an ongoing job I was really interested in, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrea &#8211; good advice. I think I&#8217;ll try that with a new client (that I got off this job board &#8211; THANKS!).</p>
<p>What&#8217;s great about this job is that we can take a break to go to Starbucks or take a week of sick days &#8211; as long as we still get our work to our clients on time and done to the best of our abilities.</p>
<p>I just took last week off to run the book fair at my kids&#8217; school. I knew it was coming up so I scheduled all of my work around it and made sure I didn&#8217;t take on any new jobs in the week&#8217;s prior to it.</p>
<p>I want to know about the flakey clients. This has happened to me twice now. I get a response saying they loved me work, they want me to do the job and then boom &#8211; nothing. I never hear from them again. The first time happened over two years ago, but the second happened just this month. It was an ongoing job I was really interested in, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 18:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deb,

Great post!  One thing that always works well for me, and this may be too obvious to really be a &quot;tip&quot;, is to reiterate the job summary before I start work for a client.  I&#039;ve found that simply saying, &quot;So, looking at my notes, you need short, snappy blurbs and bullet points that sum up your service points.  You want to empasize X...&quot; etc. can make a big difference.  If I&#039;m wrong about something, this discussion with the client can make sure we&#039;re both &quot;interpreting&quot; the assignment the same way before I send them work that isn&#039;t quite what they wanted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deb,</p>
<p>Great post!  One thing that always works well for me, and this may be too obvious to really be a &#8220;tip&#8221;, is to reiterate the job summary before I start work for a client.  I&#8217;ve found that simply saying, &#8220;So, looking at my notes, you need short, snappy blurbs and bullet points that sum up your service points.  You want to empasize X&#8230;&#8221; etc. can make a big difference.  If I&#8217;m wrong about something, this discussion with the client can make sure we&#8217;re both &#8220;interpreting&#8221; the assignment the same way before I send them work that isn&#8217;t quite what they wanted.</p>
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		<title>By: Kara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 18:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AWESOME post, Deb. Just today, a happy client recommended me for another job. Now, I may not get it (publisher balked at my hourly rate), but still, it was nice to get a glowing rec. based on my past work.

I guess I would just second that you really need to act professionally throughout an entire job, even if you never plan to work with these folks again. Toward the end of one project I got feisty  in some emails re: &quot;why aren&#039;t my proofing suggestions being made?!&quot; and I was a bit concerned I ticked my colleagues off. But I guess it&#039;s all good - since one was the person who recommended me for the new job. (Still, I was a little embarrassed....)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AWESOME post, Deb. Just today, a happy client recommended me for another job. Now, I may not get it (publisher balked at my hourly rate), but still, it was nice to get a glowing rec. based on my past work.</p>
<p>I guess I would just second that you really need to act professionally throughout an entire job, even if you never plan to work with these folks again. Toward the end of one project I got feisty  in some emails re: &#8220;why aren&#8217;t my proofing suggestions being made?!&#8221; and I was a bit concerned I ticked my colleagues off. But I guess it&#8217;s all good &#8211; since one was the person who recommended me for the new job. (Still, I was a little embarrassed&#8230;.)</p>
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		<title>By: Erik Hare</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erik Hare</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2007 18:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I don&#039;t like doing a ton of work for free, whenever I have a big project in front of me I always outline and timeline the work that has to be done before we even sign a contract.  In fact, I usually write the contract to include payouts when milestones are reached.  That way, they see that I am organized up front and when I deliver a few interim bits on time they relax a lot.  It&#039;s the best way I can get over the &quot;I&#039;ve been burned by consultants before&quot; routine.

This may not apply for a lot of small one-off magazine articles, but anything that requires some research you can say, &quot;I will have an update as to where I am going on XXX&quot;.  That way they know you are organized and not bug you as much out of mistrust.  I think it also helps to have the planning done in advance if you&#039;re asking for top dollar.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I don&#8217;t like doing a ton of work for free, whenever I have a big project in front of me I always outline and timeline the work that has to be done before we even sign a contract.  In fact, I usually write the contract to include payouts when milestones are reached.  That way, they see that I am organized up front and when I deliver a few interim bits on time they relax a lot.  It&#8217;s the best way I can get over the &#8220;I&#8217;ve been burned by consultants before&#8221; routine.</p>
<p>This may not apply for a lot of small one-off magazine articles, but anything that requires some research you can say, &#8220;I will have an update as to where I am going on XXX&#8221;.  That way they know you are organized and not bug you as much out of mistrust.  I think it also helps to have the planning done in advance if you&#8217;re asking for top dollar.</p>
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