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		<title>By: Tasha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tasha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 20:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Has anyone ever tried this company? Is it a scam?

http://work-at-home-top-10.com/freelance.html

Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has anyone ever tried this company? Is it a scam?</p>
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<p>Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Yvette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yvette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 03:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Deb, 
Thanks so much for your advice. I will research the online portfolio option.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Deb,<br />
Thanks so much for your advice. I will research the online portfolio option.</p>
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		<title>By: Rhonda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rhonda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 18:33:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Deborah,

Kudos for your response to Michael&#039;s letter. Well said.</description>
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<p>Kudos for your response to Michael&#8217;s letter. Well said.</p>
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		<title>By: dejah</title>
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		<dc:creator>dejah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 13:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On the one hand, politeness and professionalism are to be valued. On the other hand, I&#039;ve had some appalling experiences with editors/publishers--while being nice and professional--and had to play hardball. 

Someone once said &quot;a freelancer is someone who is paid per hour, per piece, or perhaps.&quot; You never know if a client is a &quot;perhaps&quot; sort. Some of my best clients have been very slow about paying... in fact, ALL of them have. Definitely a hardball moment. I deserve to be paid, and ON TIME. No, I won&#039;t stand for less. Right now, I&#039;m in danger of my cable being turned off because a client is weeks late with a $5K payment, accounting for most of my income last month. You can bet I&#039;m playing hardball. 

I&#039;ve had clients who promised the moon, but when the contract came--after the work had been done--the contract was an appalling WMFH nightmare. There, you play hardball, as hard as you can, knowing that not only will you never work for the client again, you never want to. Been there, done that, preserved my rights, thanks. 

As far as being on the obsequious side when you query or apply, I don&#039;t see that as a strength at all. Yes, be polite, but show that you respect not only them, you respect yourself. Don&#039;t shilly shally about your capabilities or your clips. And don&#039;t be of the opinion that you have to beg (or near beg) for work. You don&#039;t. If you write well, there is plenty of work for everyone. You keep sending out queries, it&#039;s not necessary to be anything more than professional and cordial. If you don&#039;t write that well, your time is better spent honing your craft than sucking up to editors. And mind you, &quot;following directions&quot; is not included in &quot;sucking up.&quot; You&#039;re expected to be able to follow directions... and expected to know when you can get away with cheating, AND expected to know when you should call the editor for guidance.

Anyway, I don&#039;t think you&#039;re a corporate shill, Deb. People see what they expect/want to see (check the NYT for a recent article on the same). I don&#039;t do everything the same way as you do, but that&#039;s years of experience talking. And we all have different experience. By and large, I find that your advice is great for newbies and good for mid-career people. What would I like to see? Well, I&#039;d like to see information for mid-career people on how to take their careers to the next level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the one hand, politeness and professionalism are to be valued. On the other hand, I&#8217;ve had some appalling experiences with editors/publishers&#8211;while being nice and professional&#8211;and had to play hardball. </p>
<p>Someone once said &#8220;a freelancer is someone who is paid per hour, per piece, or perhaps.&#8221; You never know if a client is a &#8220;perhaps&#8221; sort. Some of my best clients have been very slow about paying&#8230; in fact, ALL of them have. Definitely a hardball moment. I deserve to be paid, and ON TIME. No, I won&#8217;t stand for less. Right now, I&#8217;m in danger of my cable being turned off because a client is weeks late with a $5K payment, accounting for most of my income last month. You can bet I&#8217;m playing hardball. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had clients who promised the moon, but when the contract came&#8211;after the work had been done&#8211;the contract was an appalling WMFH nightmare. There, you play hardball, as hard as you can, knowing that not only will you never work for the client again, you never want to. Been there, done that, preserved my rights, thanks. </p>
<p>As far as being on the obsequious side when you query or apply, I don&#8217;t see that as a strength at all. Yes, be polite, but show that you respect not only them, you respect yourself. Don&#8217;t shilly shally about your capabilities or your clips. And don&#8217;t be of the opinion that you have to beg (or near beg) for work. You don&#8217;t. If you write well, there is plenty of work for everyone. You keep sending out queries, it&#8217;s not necessary to be anything more than professional and cordial. If you don&#8217;t write that well, your time is better spent honing your craft than sucking up to editors. And mind you, &#8220;following directions&#8221; is not included in &#8220;sucking up.&#8221; You&#8217;re expected to be able to follow directions&#8230; and expected to know when you can get away with cheating, AND expected to know when you should call the editor for guidance.</p>
<p>Anyway, I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re a corporate shill, Deb. People see what they expect/want to see (check the NYT for a recent article on the same). I don&#8217;t do everything the same way as you do, but that&#8217;s years of experience talking. And we all have different experience. By and large, I find that your advice is great for newbies and good for mid-career people. What would I like to see? Well, I&#8217;d like to see information for mid-career people on how to take their careers to the next level.</p>
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		<title>By: Hayli Morrison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hayli Morrison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 12:31:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regarding online portfolios, I find the one on ifreelance.com to have been a godsend since I started freelancing. Very clean, professional and easy to use. I don&#039;t mind paying the money each year ($78/yr. for the top-tier level that allows you to include the most samples). To me, it&#039;s worth it not to have to create and maintain a web site! As far as a source for good jobs, ifreelance is hit or miss, but GREAT for portfolios! They even keep track of how many views your page is getting from within the ifreelance community and externally, day by day. Check my portfolio out by clicking on my link.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regarding online portfolios, I find the one on ifreelance.com to have been a godsend since I started freelancing. Very clean, professional and easy to use. I don&#8217;t mind paying the money each year ($78/yr. for the top-tier level that allows you to include the most samples). To me, it&#8217;s worth it not to have to create and maintain a web site! As far as a source for good jobs, ifreelance is hit or miss, but GREAT for portfolios! They even keep track of how many views your page is getting from within the ifreelance community and externally, day by day. Check my portfolio out by clicking on my link.</p>
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		<title>By: PreSchool Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>PreSchool Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 07:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oops! Brenda - Missed the &quot;d&quot; there!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops! Brenda &#8211; Missed the &#8220;d&#8221; there!</p>
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		<title>By: PreSchool Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>PreSchool Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 07:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I remember right, Jodee had done a post a while back about customer service tips for freelancers. There were some excellent ideas there.   

Also, the DP Forums do allow clients to leave negative feedback for freelancers, if that&#039;s what Brena meant by the blackballing comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I remember right, Jodee had done a post a while back about customer service tips for freelancers. There were some excellent ideas there.   </p>
<p>Also, the DP Forums do allow clients to leave negative feedback for freelancers, if that&#8217;s what Brena meant by the blackballing comment.</p>
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