Self Promotion Doesn't Mean Spam

I’m not going to name names or point fingers but once upon a time, I did a Q&A with a web 2.0 up and comer. You see, I kept receiving email telling me how spectacular this person was. So I decided to investigate. She was a joy to interview and I posted her profile on one of my blogs and the testimonials and positive comments rolled in. And by rolled in I mean they kept coming…and coming…and coming. After a while it occurred to me they were all basically saying the same thing. I looked a little deeper and saw they all came from the same IP. I dug even further and realized all the letters sent to me about this great person were sent by that same IP as well. I had been had.

When I decided to pull the interview the self promoting diva confronted me. How could I do that? Look at all the nice things people were saying about her. Was there a problem? I told her of my findings and that I felt kind of stupid. She got angry and told me it was my own fault. I’m always telling bloggers to get involved in a little “shameless self promotion.” She was only taking my advice. Well yes, I do say that. But there’s a big difference between promoting a blog or a product and spam.

To promote my blog I have contests and polls, I put my URL in signature lines in comments and forum post, and I might even Tweet out a title now and then. Do I send email upon email to a high profile blogger asking her to check me out while pretending not to be me? No. That’s not shameless self promotion, that’s deceit and spam and it’s not what I mean at all.

People in the blogosphere are kind. They’re always willing to help out other bloggers. They don’t take too kindly to others trying to pull the wool over their eyes. When you promote do so in a way that’s not going to annoy or upset your fellow bloggers. You’ll find your traffic may happen slower, but you have a good honest fan base. Besides I’d much rather know people came to my blog because they liked what I had to say and not because of a bunch of false testimonials.

Comments

  1. MJ Ray says:

    Classic astroturf – looks like grassroots until you check the actual roots. Don’t feel bad. Our politicians get taken in by this stuff too and at least you didn’t make a new bad law.

  2. Yep, do unto others and all that…great axiom by which to live.

  3. Not only is there a big difference between self-promotion and spam, there’s an even bigger difference between self promotion and flat-out lying. I have a HARD time believing her *excuse* that she was just following your advice.

    I think she knew dang well what she was doing and was just pissed she got caught.

    Yes, Deb, it’s your own fault – you are guilty of being a nice person who wants to support other people in the blogosphere – damn you, anyway! ;)

  4. Dube says:

    Wow. That is positively awful. Sadly, it’s not the first time I’ve heard of this.

    Once, someone submitted a story to Digg and called and asked me to digg it. It was a good story, so of course I agreed. Then he said, “Hey, can you go on Digg and create some new profiles and digg the story from those too and leave comments?”

    What on EARTH?! Of course, I told him there was no way I would do that.

    Sadly, if people are OK lying about things like that, they probably lie about much bigger things also.

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