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	<title>Comments on: You&#8217;re in the Driver&#8217;s Seat—Now Go!</title>
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		<title>By: #4</title>
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		<dc:creator>#4</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 17:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, &lt;b&gt;#11&lt;/b&gt; :) I think we all have to remind ourselves of that occasionally (and for me, more than occasionally!).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, <b>#11</b> <img src='http://www.freelancewritinggigs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I think we all have to remind ourselves of that occasionally (and for me, more than occasionally!).</p>
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		<title>By: Candidate #11</title>
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		<dc:creator>Candidate #11</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 16:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Know that what you want is possible.&quot; Absolutely. I have to remind myself of that occasionally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Know that what you want is possible.&#8221; Absolutely. I have to remind myself of that occasionally.</p>
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		<title>By: #4</title>
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		<dc:creator>#4</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 13:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Deb&lt;/b&gt;, right you are.

&lt;b&gt;Evan&lt;/b&gt;, glad this helped. Maybe the clients would be interested if you altered or reworked the proposals. Maybe not. In any case, keep on truckin&#039;. With enough market research and fine-tuning, someone somewhere is going to go for one of your proposals, and I hope that someone shows up soon!

&lt;b&gt;Aurora&lt;/b&gt;, wow, thank you! I&#039;m flattered to know that you&#039;ll consider bookmarking my post. I appreciate your suggestions about including concrete examples... that would have been a great idea, and I wish it had occurred to me at the time I was writing this. To provide an example now without giving away too much about me, I can say that I have worked for a while in a niche area of writing that is almost impossible to break into, and I have been ruthless about trying to get my work out there and considered. I have been making attempts to improve my writing and work toward my goals in this particular field for years with, well, almost no reward. But in my mind, I feel like I&#039;ve accomplished a lot. After all, where would I be now without the market research, self-education, and writing I&#039;ve done in the past few years? Even if I don&#039;t have tangible results to show for it yet, my passion for the work and my refusal to think that I may possibly fail (because I &lt;i&gt;won&#039;t&lt;/i&gt;; it&#039;s as simple as that) are more than what I need to keep me going.

&lt;b&gt;Andrea&lt;/b&gt;, I am sure the &#039;just do it&#039; attitude is a good thing if it&#039;s gotten you results! I really do believe that it makes all the difference in the world. I think sometimes people underestimate the effects of motivation and positive thinking. Negative thinking can really be detrimental and can make a person physically ill, but there&#039;s an incredible flip side in that positive thinking is an amazing tool in nearing your goals and finally accomplishing them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Deb</b>, right you are.</p>
<p><b>Evan</b>, glad this helped. Maybe the clients would be interested if you altered or reworked the proposals. Maybe not. In any case, keep on truckin&#8217;. With enough market research and fine-tuning, someone somewhere is going to go for one of your proposals, and I hope that someone shows up soon!</p>
<p><b>Aurora</b>, wow, thank you! I&#8217;m flattered to know that you&#8217;ll consider bookmarking my post. I appreciate your suggestions about including concrete examples&#8230; that would have been a great idea, and I wish it had occurred to me at the time I was writing this. To provide an example now without giving away too much about me, I can say that I have worked for a while in a niche area of writing that is almost impossible to break into, and I have been ruthless about trying to get my work out there and considered. I have been making attempts to improve my writing and work toward my goals in this particular field for years with, well, almost no reward. But in my mind, I feel like I&#8217;ve accomplished a lot. After all, where would I be now without the market research, self-education, and writing I&#8217;ve done in the past few years? Even if I don&#8217;t have tangible results to show for it yet, my passion for the work and my refusal to think that I may possibly fail (because I <i>won&#8217;t</i>; it&#8217;s as simple as that) are more than what I need to keep me going.</p>
<p><b>Andrea</b>, I am sure the &#8216;just do it&#8217; attitude is a good thing if it&#8217;s gotten you results! I really do believe that it makes all the difference in the world. I think sometimes people underestimate the effects of motivation and positive thinking. Negative thinking can really be detrimental and can make a person physically ill, but there&#8217;s an incredible flip side in that positive thinking is an amazing tool in nearing your goals and finally accomplishing them.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 12:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#4 I totally agree with what you&#039;ve posted.  That &#039;just do it&#039; attitude has made a lot of things happen for me (whether or not that&#039;s a good thing still remains to be seen).  Positive thinking isn&#039;t a magic want, but it sure gets you going and helps you to think out of the box to find ways around all the pesky obstacles that like to pop up in life.  Well done!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#4 I totally agree with what you&#8217;ve posted.  That &#8216;just do it&#8217; attitude has made a lot of things happen for me (whether or not that&#8217;s a good thing still remains to be seen).  Positive thinking isn&#8217;t a magic want, but it sure gets you going and helps you to think out of the box to find ways around all the pesky obstacles that like to pop up in life.  Well done!</p>
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		<title>By: Aurora</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aurora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 03:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that your posts seems to resonate with my own career. The first sentence grabbed me enough to keep me reading. As an inspiration post it was good. I would rather, however, have seen examples of what you have done or would do to back up your advice, rather than a comparison to having a gym membership that you don&#039;t use. But still, I think I&#039;ll bookmark this blog post and revisit it the next time I lose a job I really, really wanted to keep!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that your posts seems to resonate with my own career. The first sentence grabbed me enough to keep me reading. As an inspiration post it was good. I would rather, however, have seen examples of what you have done or would do to back up your advice, rather than a comparison to having a gym membership that you don&#8217;t use. But still, I think I&#8217;ll bookmark this blog post and revisit it the next time I lose a job I really, really wanted to keep!</p>
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		<title>By: evan</title>
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		<dc:creator>evan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 20:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this, it&#039;s pretty much exactly what I needed after a long week of proposals that were shot dead by clients.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this, it&#8217;s pretty much exactly what I needed after a long week of proposals that were shot dead by clients.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 16:16:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a firm believer in the power of &quot;just do it&quot;. We can hopefully help to empower or readers but we can&#039;t make them take that first step!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a firm believer in the power of &#8220;just do it&#8221;. We can hopefully help to empower or readers but we can&#8217;t make them take that first step!</p>
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		<title>By: Dani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#4: Thank you for taking my comment in context, and for the great reply.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#4: Thank you for taking my comment in context, and for the great reply.</p>
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		<title>By: Jodee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jodee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ #4: You did send me that first sentence and it didn&#039;t get copied over somehow. I&#039;ve fixed it now. Sorry about that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ #4: You did send me that first sentence and it didn&#8217;t get copied over somehow. I&#8217;ve fixed it now. Sorry about that.</p>
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		<title>By: #4</title>
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		<dc:creator>#4</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Dani&lt;/b&gt;, you are absolutely correct. That&#039;s why I added the &quot;hopefully, I&#039;ll be here to help you&quot; bit. Because nobody always knows instinctively how to get what they want, especially if there&#039;s so much to learn about the field in which that person is interested. I do hope it&#039;s assumed that I would be helping as many FWJ readers as possible to get the things they want out of their careers, as that would be a personal aspiration of mine if I become a regular blogger here. However, it is also up to the individual to figure out how to attain his/her goals. FWJ is one valuable resource along the way, and there are countless others for writers as well. Investigating and learning and &lt;i&gt;teaching&lt;/i&gt; is part of the journey, and I&#039;m glad you pointed out that I always need to be aware of that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Dani</b>, you are absolutely correct. That&#8217;s why I added the &#8220;hopefully, I&#8217;ll be here to help you&#8221; bit. Because nobody always knows instinctively how to get what they want, especially if there&#8217;s so much to learn about the field in which that person is interested. I do hope it&#8217;s assumed that I would be helping as many FWJ readers as possible to get the things they want out of their careers, as that would be a personal aspiration of mine if I become a regular blogger here. However, it is also up to the individual to figure out how to attain his/her goals. FWJ is one valuable resource along the way, and there are countless others for writers as well. Investigating and learning and <i>teaching</i> is part of the journey, and I&#8217;m glad you pointed out that I always need to be aware of that.</p>
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