
The Internet is an amazing freelance writing tool. We use it to communicate, find work and network. I don’t like to bore you with too many “back in the day” stories, but I can tell you times have changed drastically in the past ten to twenty years.
The problem with all this online stuff is how it makes everything less personal. It’s one of the reasons I enjoy attending so many confererences. Networking not only gives me the opporutnity to meet interesting people, but people who might be in need of my services. I also meet people who know people who might be in need of my services. Social media, online networking, email…these are all great tools. It’s the face to face networking that really drives it all home.
Here’s why face to face networking rocks, especially at writing and social media conferences.
- Lots of elevators to pitch: Actually, I don’t believe in giving elevator pitches, really. I do believe in face to face marketing, however. When you’re in a room filled with hundreds of others, you have the ability to reach so many people. Now, chances are you won’t get to meet everyone in attendance but whether you meet 5 or 10 or 50, you now have more contacts…and potential clients.
- Business cards and promotional material don’t get lost in the email shuffle: Cold calling or cold emailing can be effective. The problem with email is it either gets lost in the queue, put in a folder never to be seen again, or deleted outright. People tend to keep business cards and brochures. I have envelopes filled with business cards from every conference I attended. When you give someone your business card he might not use it right away, but he may use it a month or a year from now.
- Passion: Your potential client can’t always see your passion in an email. (though as a writer it’s something that should show through.) However, when you’re face to face your passion shines through each time.
- You can better conduct business over a cup of coffee than an email pitch: When you’re having a conversation you can flesh out ideas. You can offer suggestions and listen to advice in return. One 30 minute conversation will do a lot more for your career than 3 emailed paragraphs.
- Email is so impersonal: Though it’s not necessary to elaborate, I will say this. People prefer to talk to real live people than a computer. They prefer to hear voice than to read an email. It’s the reason no one likes automated phone calls or Twitter DM spam. They prefer personalized pitches to impersonal online marketing.
- The trust factor: Folks trust you better when they can see your face and hear your voice. They like to look you in the eye and make sure you’re on the up and up.
- You know exactly who you’re talking to: When you’re face to face you’re talking to the person you want to talk to. Not the receptionist. Not the fake supervisor. You’re taking it straight to the man. (or woman as the case may be).
- No one can hang up the phone: One of the reasons I dislike cold calling is because sometimes the person who answers the phone will say, “no thank you” and hang up before I can even get the words out. When you’re meeting with someone face to face, you can usually at least say what it is you do and offer a business card.
- Face to face is memorable: Potential clients are more likely to remember you if reach out in person as opposed to online. Emails don’t always make a lasting impression.
- It gives you a chance to work on your people skills: Networking is good practice. It allows you to try out your people and customer service skills. When you’re talking with others you can tell what works. You can read their expressions and body language to see what they’re thinking. When you network you learn a lot about your delivery and can tweak that to your advantage.
How do you network?










Are you reading my mail, Deb? I went to my first networking event in months today and came away with almost everyone in the place promising to call me for more info on my blogging services. I was able to explain the importance of social media to a lot of people who don’t even know what Twitter is, and at least two people said they needed my help yesterday.
My most important takeaway lesson – and one that you, Angela Booth and many others have tried to hammer home time and time again – was that there are millions of people out there that I’m simply not going to reach if I only market online. I had an extremely enlightening and productive day and I’m now a face to face networking believer.
Hi Deb,
Thanks for sharing your realistic insights. I do agree with all the points. Face to face networking has the personal touch. It also builds greater trust and confidence than online networking.
Deb, I’m just starting out freelancing, but I’ve taught professional/ job hunting skills to college students, and I completely agree with this post. Thanks for the reminder and the encouragement. I have been reading your website almost daily, and I can’t tell you how much I am helped by your solid advice, recommendations, and encouragement. Thanks for taking the time to invest so much in helping other writers!
Too bad most of my clients are far away from me. However, I do network with the local potential clients.